Your life will always move into the dominant visions, images, and thoughts that you have. Advertizing is based on fear, so you will buy something. Relationships greatly impact your life. There are others you need to connect with who have the keys for your life. Your life is defined by your friends. God cannot get some things to us, because we are envious of something in another person. Honor that quality, but do not be envious of it. Do not stay where you are if God tells you to change. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness. Do not identify with your sin. God is for us, not against us.